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Using language

Use of language is also known as expressive language. It is how your child is learning to:

  • say new words
  • put them together into sentences

Use of language also includes non-verbal communication like gestures.

Early years development of expressive language

The ages should be treated as a rough guide, as each child is unique and will develop at their own pace.

9 months old

By 9 months old, babies will usually:

  • babble
  • try to say words, for example “dada”

18 months old

By 18 months old, babies will usually:

  • Say more common words
  • Sometimes puts two words together such as “all gone” or “bye bye”

2 years old

By 2 years old, a child will usually:

  • Know up to 200 words
  • Put two and three words together in short sentences – for example, “me go home”
  • Use up to 50 words

2.5 years old

By 2.5 years old, a child will usually:

  • put three and four word sentences together, for example, “me go in there”
  • use different sorts of words
  • start to use question words, for example, “what’s that there?”

3 years old

By 3 years old, a child will usually:

  • link more than four words together, for example “I want juice and sweets”
  • starts to use “and” to link ideas
  • starts to use “I”, “he”, “she” words and multiple words like “cats”, “balls”

3.5 years old

By 3.5 years old, a child will usually:

  • link ideas together using “cos” (because) – for example “I put wellies on ‘cos it’s raining”
  • asks more difficult questions using “why” and “how”

4 years old

By 4 years old, a child will usually:

  • use talking for many reasons
  • be able to re-tell favourite stories
  • be able to play make believe games, for example “you be the mum and I’ll be the baby”

4.5 years old

By 4.5 years old, a child will usually:

  • be able to tell others about what is happening